Girls Like Us vol.2 #14 DISAPPOINTMENT
The feeling of disappointment is not only close to regret, sadness, and dissatisfaction – a feeling of loss, an uncomfortable space (or a painful gap) between expectations and reality – we also understand it as a rattling in the rusty machinery of a society whose fuel is extraction and oppression.
Considered an ‘ugly feeling’ by society’s norm, we’re not supposed to vocalize what and who is letting us down. We’re supposed to stay positive, get organized and act, instead of lingering in negative emotions. We’re supposed to be productive. But making space for disappointment can be a strategy of dissensus. Instead of wallowing in impotence, to make explicit what is not meeting expectations for this world can be an act of renouncing and making cracks in the status quo, while not giving up allegiance that another world is possible.
Pelumi Adejumo, Persis Bekkering, Dagmar Bosma, Dora García, Jessica Gysel Sara Kaaman, Katja Mater & Yin Yin Wong
With contributions by:
Staci Bu Shea
Maoyi (Peixuan Qiu)
Iarlaith Ni Fheorais
Ashley Nkechi Igwe
Shola von Reinhold
Yin Yin Wong
Yoyes Maria Dolores Gonzalez Katarain
Published by Girls Like Us, 2023
Periodicals / Queer Culture